There’s another side to the coin called forgiveness. What if you are seeking forgiveness from someone and they’re withholding that forgiveness? If you wait until they come to you, you may wait until it is eternally too late. Don’t wait until they ask for forgiveness, forgive them regardless of their response because you can’t bear the weight of unforgiveness. You can’t change another person’s eternity, but you can change yours, and you do that by living a life of forgiveness. A note of wisdom. I suggest you don’t ever go to that person and say, “I forgive you.” Actually, all that does is say that you don’t like what they did. That’s not contrition, that’s an accusation and that never helps the situation.